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The C++ Standard allows references and pointers to be invalidated independently for the same operation, which may result in an invalidated reference but not an invalidated pointer. However, relying on this distinction is insecure because the object pointed to by the pointer may be different than expected even if the pointer is valid. For instance, it is possible to retrieve a pointer to an element from a container, erase that element (invalidating references when destroying the underlying object), then insert a new element at the same location within the container causing the extant pointer to now point to a valid, but different than the original, distinct object. Thus, any operation that invalidates a pointer or a reference should be treated as though it invalidates both pointers and references.
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